THE TRAFFIC LIGHT SYSTEM IS IN PLACE FOR SAFE WORDS.
We use the traffic light system for our safe words here, please ensure when participating in play these words are used so that if anything is going wrong anyone can recognise it.
GREEN- Everything is Good. Keep going.
AMBER/YELLOW- Something is not right. For the Tops/Masters/Dom’s/Domme’s asses with sub/bottom and adjust. For the sub/bottom you may not like the implement being used, you could be at your limit and need it stepping down slightly or you could be in an uncomfortable position whatever the issue is speak it out and it will be adjusted.
RED- I have had enough its time to end scene and time to commence AFTERCARE.
ALL HOST WEAR A GLOWBAND AT OUR EVENTS. ANY QUESTIONS OR PROBLEMS PLEASE SEE ONE OF US.
if you find someone with or using illicit substances on our property, breaking consent, being predatory or you have a concern REPORT IT TO A HOST IMMEDIATELY!!!!
By doing this you ensure the safety of yourselves and our other patrons, we need to deal with the above issues in a timely and professional manner so please anything minor, major or in-between please come confide in us, your name will not be involved in discussions with people breaking these rules, please be reassured that once reported we will deal with it and if you need a debriefing we will debrief as soon as is possible.
CONSENT IS MANDATORY AT ALL TIMES.
you need to confirm consent before being in somebody’s personal space, ask before you hug, don’t touch, bite, pull hair, spank, grab, grope or be in somebody’s space without expressed consent. please remember some people have Partners/Masters/Doms/Dommes so please acquire consent from them also.
DO NOT TOUCH UNLESS PERMITTED.
Just because people may be out in the open playing does not give you permission to just join in and have a touch, feel, smell, taste etc, ASK BEFORE YOU TRY JOIN IN, this goes back to the CONSENT rule.
NO KINK SHAMING.
We have a wide variety of kinks, from Littles who have very important Stuffies, Pet Play, voyeurism, exhibitionists, cross dressers, all in-between and around, you as an individual need to keep any disrespectful, demeaning, hurtful comments about any kink to yourself, we do not take this lightly, if you have questions ask politely i.e hey I noticed you had a Teddy/stuffed toy/ bear, why is that NOT what are you doing with a teddy/stuffed toy/bear. the way you ask a question can make all the difference. please remember we are here to feel safe and have a place o belong no matter our kinks.
DO NOT ENTER OR INTERFERE WITH AN ACTIVE SCENE.
When there is a scene in progress on any station please be respectful and keep noise to a minimum, do not step into the scene or interrupt, the people in the scene are trying to concentrate and disturbing a scene can be detrimental for the Dom/Domme/Top and sub/bottom. we ask that you wait to ask any questions until the end.
PRIVATE SCENE DO NOT ENTER SIGNS & LANYARDS
If there is signage or lanyards on a closed door that states a private scene is going on DO NOT ENTER or Interrupt. If you need something ask a host!
ALWAYS MAINTAIN AN OPEN MIND
There are many different characters here and we ask that you keep and open mind.
Hosts have the right to deny entry to anyone who does not meet the dress code of smart casual. If you are unclear about what this means always dress to impress. (Unless otherwise stated in an event theme or page)
NO PERSON SHALL BE ALLOWED ON SITE WHO IS DEEMED INTOXICATED.
Being a byo venue no alcohol is served or sold on site. Persons who are intoxicated will be asked to leave immediately and or denied entry.
FAILURE TO FOLLOW THESE RULES MAY RESULT IN A PERMANENT BAN FROM THE VENUE.